Below is a case study of a client I worked with. It’s a perfect example of how deeply held perceptions in the subconscious mind can over ride logical reasoning in the conscious mind.

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Lady in her early 30s comes to my office (By the way, if you don’t already know, in the Hypnosis world I’m known for specializing in regression hypnosis to find the root subconsicous cause).

She says (paraphrasing) “Matt, I don’t get it. I’m very accomplished in everything I do but there’s one part of my life that I just don’t get. I want a LOVING relationship but all my relationships end up abusively whether mentally or physically.”

Long story short … We regress her to moments in her life and find her at an event of 4 years of age where dad is trying to teach her how to tell time with one of those round clocks … and every time she would get it wrong, he would beat her.

Now, this in and of itself is bad enough, but what happened next was even worse. But before I go there, let me give you a little diddy about the subconscious mind (SM).

For the subconscious mind the word security is not what is right or wrong, good or bad, or what even feels good or bad - rather security for the SM is what’s familiar and our SMs like to go back to what’s familiar, even if it’s bad for us.

Also, between the ages of 0-5 (some say 0-12)psychologists tell us that we learn more in that time frame then the rest of our lives put together! So after 5 years of age we’re either resonating with the perceptions we’ve already built up or desperately trying to fight against them.

More technical stuff later, but now back to my case study.

Soooo, what was so bad that my client’s father did to her after beating her for getting the answer wrong? He would then force her to say “Thank you dad for loving me”

Ok, I lied, back to more technical stuff and I’ll go back to the case study :). Bear with me, this will all come together.

One of the ways the SM works is by association, not logic. Logic is in the conscious mind.

With that being said, let me take it back to the beginning of my story… as an adult my client kept saying to herself “I want a loving relationship” … well, that’s what her logical conscious mind was saying.

However, what was her subconscious mind remembering? Back to the events when Dad would beat her and maker her say “Thank you Dad for LOVING me”

Although, she very much wanted a loving (real love anyhow) relationship - she even wrote down a list of everything she wanted in a man and even worked on affirmations for it- her subconscious mind assoiciated the word “love” with those times dad would beat her.

Remember what dad made her say after he would beat her “Thank you dad for LOVING me.” At 4 years of age that idea of love was already getting embedded in her subconscious mind and becoming familiar as she grew up.

In it’s most basic essence her SM mind wrapped a “protective covering” around the idea of her perceptional association to love at an early age and only placed her in scenes that would reinforce her deep perceptional ideas of what love is.

Furthermore, this was also re-inforced simply cause her dad was her dad, and what are dads suppose to be representative of? Love.

Anyhow, we moved her through those moments and eventually healed the old emotional beliefs she had. What a wonderful thing it is for me to see that AHA moment in clients when the release comes. You can literally feel the shift in the room.

The truth of the matter is, if we could change everything thing through the conscious logical mind, we’d be happy all the time. But in this time of human evolution we still have to move through old baggage that may have been instilled in side of us for years … perhaps even lifetimes, if you have those beliefs.

In future blogs, I will go more deeply into the powers of the subconscious and how to break the patterns that seemed so ingrained… but for now, remember, you came into this world with real love but with certain patterns of your life, you simply just forget how powerful that love you came into this world with, really is.

For now, if you’d like to share some patterns you think are deeply ingrained that you still have or have broken past - please, leave a comment. I’d love to hear about it. Maybe your story can inspire others to break their blocks!

Matt

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